Hope begins when confusion ends.
Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life. (Proverbs 13:12)
When You’re Hurting and Don’t Know What Comes Next
Maybe you’re still married and wondering why nothing ever changes. Maybe you’re separated or going through a divorce and trying to make sense of what happened. Or maybe the marriage has already ended, but the confusion, grief, emotional attachment, and pain haven’t.
You may have prayed, forgiven, sought counsel, read the books, tried harder, set boundaries, or spent years hoping things would get better. And yet you still feel anxious, emotionally exhausted, lonely, confused, or stuck.
If this sounds familiar, you are not alone.
Proverbs 13:12 Retreats are faith-based healing retreats for women who are still married, separated, divorcing, or already divorced and struggling with the effects of an unhealthy or emotionally abusive relationship. Through biblical teaching, trauma-informed education, and practical healing tools, our retreats help you understand what you have experienced, gain clarity, rebuild trust in yourself, and begin taking meaningful steps toward healing.
You do not have to have your marriage — or your future — figured out before you come. Whether you are trying to understand what is happening now or trying to heal from what has already happened, there is a path forward. God sees you. He cares about your pain.
Truth matters. Healing is possible. Hope can be restored.
Retreat materials have been reviewed and endorsed by Dr. Mindi Lunday, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in complex trauma. Read Dr. Lunday’s letter.